2025-04-18

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2025-04-18 01:35 am

Had a bit of insomnia last night

But I got up at 10:00 anyway and ate breakfast and had coffee and showered and dressed, and then went to see Oldest Brother. It was a good vist. I stayed a little more than a half hour.

AS I was leaving the nursing home I got a call from the hospice person. There may be a glitch, the hospice only covers the cost of the PEG feeding if it's related to the diagnosis. They are reviewing his medical stuff and will let me know.

After that I went to [personal profile] mashfanficchick's place and called the Kid about it. She says not to worry about it until it's actually denied.

[personal profile] mashfanficchick and I went out to dinner at Bareburger. We walked there and took the bus back. Dinner was delicious.

When we got here I Skyped the FWiB on my phone and we talked til 8:00 when we watched 911 followed by Dr. Odyssey. 911 was... traumatic. No spoilers though.

I called Middle Brother. He is doing well, went out to a game arcade on Monday.

After that we watched a couple of episodes of Will Trent.

Cousin Sue Facebook messaged me. She and Danny are coming tomorrow to see Oldest Brother, and we will have dinner with them. I texted the Kid, and when she didn't respond I called, to let her know. She is busy tomorrow but I hope that she and her boyfriend will have tome to join us.

That's about all. Getting ready for bed now. Obviously I'm saying over again.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Good TV, even when it's sad.

3. Oldest Brother is doing OK.

4. Also got a text from Eva R asking how we were doing.

5. Yummy dinner.

6. Middle Brother is doing OK.
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2025-04-18 11:36 pm

Full day

Got phone calls this morning from the hospice guy. The long and short is that the hospice will not cover the PEG feeding but the nirsing home itself will continue to do so. So they need some additional paperwork which is pretty much just a confirmation from the nursing home, the hospice care will start Monday or Tuesday.

I also spoke to Robyn about the funeral planning. This will be expensive but I should be able to afford it. I'm figuring a direct cremation, and a memorial in the funeral home some time following.

At about 4:45 Sue and Danny arrived. They picked me and [personal profile] mashfanficchick up and we went to the nursing home. We visited for about an hour and a half I think.

Then we went to Astoria and met up with the Kid and her boyfriend at a restaurant called Queens Room. We had dinner, and I had a glass of wine. It was lovely, we had a very good time.

After dinner we all went to Martha's Country Kitchen for dessert. There was too long a wait for a table, so we got our pastries to go and went to Ditmar Park to look at the Manhattan skyline. We ate our dessert on a bench. Then we said good bye to the Kid and her boyfriend, and Danny drove me and [personal profile] mashfanficchick to zer place where I picked up my stuff, and they drove me home.

I Skyped the FWiB, after feeding the pets.

Then I started here.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Robyn's help.

3. My cousins.

4. The Kid.

5. Good dinner.

6. Things worked out with the hospice.