Over at mashhfanficchick's

Got up quite late, had breakfast and coffee and pumpkin pie. Showered and washed my hair, which really needed it. Then I packed for the night, and took the air mattress which was deflated and packed in a backpack with the pump, fed the pets, and Ubered to the hospital.

Oldest Brother was abut the same as ysterday, which is OK. They had not yet replaced the PEG so he still had the nasal tube. I stayed for about an hour, then left.

I took the bus to Flushing and the subway from there to mashfanficchick's. Ze was still out so I let myself in and played on my phone til ze got here. Somewhere along the line I got the notice on Oldest Brother's MyChart that the PEG had been replaced and all went well, so that's good.

At 8 we watched Lonestar. Some unexpected twists in the episode made it fun.

After that we had dinner of fruit salad and cheese and crackrs. Yum!

Finally we set up the air mattress and ze went to bed and I am doing this.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB, who called me by phone during the show because his email wasn't reaching me.

2. Good TV.

3. Oldest Brother doing OK.

4. Clean hair.

5. Fruit and cheese.

6. Air mattress.

Conference on mashfanficchick's mother

Slept til a bit before 11 this morning at mashfanficchick's place, then got up, showered, and had oatmeal for breakfast.

Zer uncle picked us up around 12:15 and we went to Starbucks and then to the rehab to drop stuff off for zer mother. Then we went to zer father's apartment. RK was already there. They all discussed the situation, RK and I put in some points. Some decisions were made.

Then zer uncle took zer and me to see zer mother, and get some info from her. She is not doing well, It's very sad and worrisome.

The Kid and I had a nasty fight by text, I think it's resolved now.

After the rehab we went to zer mother's house and got some paperwork zer uncle needed. Then he dropped us off at zer apartment. Dani called and we had a three way conversation. Then I Ubered home, and Skyped the FWiB until 8, when it was time for my Al-anon meeting by Zoom. That was very good.

There is good news from Oldest Brother, he had a CT scan today and it found no evidence of internal bleeding. So there's that.

After the Al-anon meeting, the Kid and I finished the argument, and I made dinner. I did my reading on the internet and started here.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. RK.

3. Oldest Brother got good news.

4. Made up with the Kid.

5. Was able to support mashfanficchick

6. My meetings and the people there.